The Universe Answers

Why am I so surprised each time the Universe answers and shows me the solution to my questions at a particular time?. When I am going through something in my life and I find myself searching my own limited consciousness for the answer - then! the Universe hears me and offers to guide and help me through it. I am an expressive person anyway but I find myself just floored when this happens and it's all the time. My awareness is expanding and I'm seeing these signs around me everywhere.

Let me explain:
I would normally put the emotions I'm having down to being hormonal (but am now realising this is more likely to be resistance than the old hormonal excuse). There is a belief that I carry about the relationships I have. To make a long story short, I have lived being consumed with what people think of me. In relation to my husband, I think at a subconscious level it is of great consuming concern what he thinks of me, I seem to yearn for his approval. I know that this comes from my childhood because I was the same with my father, I don't know why because I have wonderful memories of my upbringing, but I think it may relate to the fact that my wonderful mother was always there for myself and my siblings, and I see now she was the connection between us children and our father. He was a very hard worker and business owner so I guess he was at work a lot. I acknowledge now that my low self esteem required approval from those that I love. This is one of many emotions and beliefs that I must release before I can truly love myself for the ME that I am.

So in the midst of having a pity party this morning over this exact belief I received an email note from our friends Abraham-Hicks which reads:

You have to care more about where you're feeling and how you want to feel, than anything else. You have to care more than what your husband thinks. You have to care more than what your mother-in-law thinks. You have to care more than what your neighbors think. You have to care more than what your church thinks or your government thinks. You have to care more than what anything that is outside of you thinks, because by caring about how you feel, you can shift your vibration.

And when you shift your vibration, every relationship shifts. Every single one.

Dallas, TX, 11/01/03


Wow, how much did I need that. I am now aware of the effect this belief has had on my life and the effect it would have had in my future, had I allowed it. I avidly listen to Louise L. Hay's 'You Can Heal Your Life' and series of audios, I'm listening all I can to The teachings of Abraham which really was the trigger for my true awakening to my source energy and the vibration I offer to the Universe.

My journey is wonderful, exciting, blissful and ongoing....life takes a whole new meaning when you follow what your heart is telling you, when you listen to that which is drawing you back to the blissful perfect life that has always been with you and living in a way of just simply knowing, and as Louise L. Hay would say "listening to your inner ding". When my 'inner ding' or intuition says "this is right" - then I know this is right for me, even when I cannot explain it. This is a whole new acceptance and understanding for someone who used to require logic and reason.

Bliss and Blessings,
Carmen